Have you ever tripped and fell in front of someone you liked then felt that wave of embarrassment wash over you?
Of course you have. We all have.
Well there's good news! Your stumble actually increased your chances of that person liking you back!
How, you ask?
Well in 1966, psychologist Elliot Aronson discovered that making a small blunder in front of someone increases a persons attractiveness and likability.
Just think about it. When you first meet someone what are the more likeable qualities?
Is it the person who seems to never have had a bad day in their life and never makes mistakes? Or is it the person who through good intentions has made slip-ups but is able to recognize them and laugh them off?
For me, it's the person who is willing and able to laugh at themselves that is more appealing. I know nobody is perfect and a little self deprication can be a strong selling point. Funny too! (just don't over do it).
If you do find yourself in a nervous situation, trying to come off as 'perfect' might in fact work against you.
So remember to relax and don't worry so much about slipping up. It's no doubt easier said then done but knowing that making a small mistake in the eyes of an observer is a GOOD thing should definitely help.
Don't believe me? Just try it for yourself!
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